Quickly grasp the key dos and don’ts in Vietnam to blend in smoothly. Vietnamdrive highlights the most important cultural tips to help you easily navigate local life.
1. Top 11 don’ts in Vietnam
1.1. Avoid complimenting babies on their looks
Many believe complimenting a baby is a kind gesture, but it’s seen differently in Vietnam. Many Vietnamese mothers believe praising a baby’s appearance—calling them adorable, beautiful, or chubby—can bring bad luck.
They worry that compliments may lead to issues like illness or loss of appetite. It’s best not to compliment a child’s looks to avoid misunderstanding.
1.2. Dress modestly at temples and spiritual sites
For Vietnamese people, temples, pagodas, and spiritual places are considered sacred. Therefore, to ensure respect, remember not to wear short, skin-revealing, or impolite outfits when going to these locations.
1.3. Don’t linger too long in local restaurants
In Vietnam, restaurants are mainly for eating, not for long conversations. Locals go to cafés or pubs when they want to chat or relax.
Lingering too long in a local restaurant may upset the owner. If you need more time to talk, it’s better to visit a café or tourist-friendly restaurant.
1.4. Avoid asking about feng shui objects in homes
Do not ask about feng shui items like paper talismans or bagua mirrors in Vietnamese homes.
Many households follow feng shui to balance energy and ward off bad luck. Homeowners believe discussing these objects can weaken their power, so it is best to avoid the topic.
1.5. Don’t bring flowers when visiting newborns
Flowers are seen as symbols of luck and beauty but are also commonly used in offering and commemorating the deceased.
After childbirth, mothers and babies are believed to be vulnerable. Any gesture linked to bad luck, such as bringing flowers to their house, is considered taboo in Vietnam. Instead, bring practical gifts such as diapers or baby clothes.
1.6. Limit wearing jewelry in public
This issue is not a cultural belief but a safety precaution. Wearing expensive jewelry can make you a target for theft or pickpocketing. To stay safe, avoid wearing valuable items like gold in public. Instead, opt for simple accessories with no high resale value.
1.7. Be cautious when consuming ice in drinks
Vietnam is located in a tropical climate zone with long, hot summers. As a result, ice is commonly used in drinks like tea, sugarcane juice, beer, and coffee. However, hygiene standards can vary, so it’s best to be mindful to avoid stomach issues.
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1.8. Refrain from criticizing the local people
Avoid speaking negatively about Vietnamese people or their customs in front of them. While locals may sometimes criticize each other, they do not accept criticism from foreigners. If you hear locals speaking harshly about one another, it’s best to stay out of the conversation.
1.9. Avoid paying small amounts with big notes
Sellers welcome all customers, but paying small amounts with large banknotes can be inconvenient. For example, using a 500,000 VND note to pay for a 30,000 VND item may trouble the seller, as they might not have enough change. To avoid delays and confusion, carry smaller banknotes like 20,000 VND or 50,000 VND for everyday purchases.
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1.10. Avoid political discussions to prevent conflicts
Every country has its own political system, and you might be curious about Vietnam. However, it’s best to avoid discussing politics with locals, including tour guides. Even if they can answer, political conversations may lead to disagreements and create unnecessary tension. To enjoy your trip peacefully, focus on cultural experiences instead.
1.11. Respect the national flag and President Ho Chi Minh
The national flag and President Ho Chi Minh are highly respected symbols in Vietnam. Disrespecting them can offend locals and may even lead to legal trouble. To avoid issues, always show respect for these important national icons.
2. Top 9 dos in Vietnam
2.1. Bring a small gift when visiting someone’s home
A gift is not required, but it’s a thoughtful gesture. Small gifts like candy or chocolate for kids or tea and fresh fruit for elders show appreciation and respect. Even a simple cake or fruit basket can make your visit more warm and welcoming.
2.2. Confirm prices and services in advance
While local authorities try to prevent price gouging, some dishonest vendors may still overcharge tourists. To avoid this, always ask for prices before using any service. This helps you make informed choices and avoid unpleasant surprises. If a price seems too high, you can say thank you and walk away.
2.3. Sit in the right place when invited to a party
In Vietnamese tradition, seating at a banquet reflects a person’s role in the family. Elders and respected members sit at the most honored tables, while younger generations sit farther away. Always ask the host where to sit or follow their guidance to avoid misunderstandings.
2.4. Ask permission before taking photos of people or private property
Some people prefer not to be photographed. Always ask permission before taking pictures of individuals or private property. Vietnamese law protects personal images, especially those of children under 12. Asking first helps you avoid unexpected issues.
2.5. Carry some cash, as not all places accept cards
Credit cards are widely used in Vietnam, but cash is still preferred in many places, especially markets and small shops. Keeping some cash handy will make your trip more convenient.
2.6. Negotiate prices at markets, but avoid bargaining for small, cheap items
Bargaining is common in Vietnamese markets, as sellers often set higher prices. Learning to negotiate helps you get fair prices and interact with locals.
However, avoid bargaining for small items under 20,000 VND, like water bottles or snacks. These are usually sold at fixed prices. If the price seems high, try another stall.
2.7. Double-check money denominations before paying
Vietnamese banknotes have similar colors, making it easy to confuse denominations. For example, the 20,000 VND and 500,000 VND notes look alike, as do the 10,000 VND and 200,000 VND bills.
Since Vietnamese currency has many zeros, first-time visitors may mistake 10,000 VND for 100,000 VND. To avoid errors, check your money carefully and keep different denominations separate, especially big bills like 500,000 VND.
2.8. Take off your shoes before entering a house
Vietnamese people usually do not wear shoes indoors. Some may not say anything, but most prefer guests to remove them. Taking off your shoes before entering is a sign of respect.
2.9. Avoid embarrassing people in public
In Vietnam, do not publicly criticize, confront, or point out mistakes, as this can cause someone to lose face and feel humiliated. Do not engage in loud arguments or conflicts or make a scene in public. Public displays of affection are also frowned upon, as men and women rarely touch in front of others.
Following these dos and don’ts will make you feel more comfortable and connected to Vietnamese culture during your trip.
We hope you have a fantastic time in Vietnam!
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